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What We Women Should Think About Mens..

I just woke up from bed. Got myself a nice shower after sleeping in a hot and sweaty condition, then just now, read a nice sayings from Oprah Winfrey from Facebook and I think it’s very beautiful. It was about MEN.. Yeahh and I just need to share it to everybody.. Here goes..

” HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN :
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within. Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he has has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending… Compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage… Deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals. Look for someone complimentary…
not supplementary.
Dating is fun… Even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes… When a man always know where you are, and you’re always readily available to him ~ he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man. Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil says… You should know that: You’re the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he’ll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he’s not the only one. They’re all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one. Ladies take care of your own hearts..
By: Oprah Winfrey”

Tadaa.. Beautiful and True isn’t it?

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โš ๏ธ[ Dear readers, my first language is not English so, I humbly apologize in advance for my grammatical and vocabulary weaknesses. ]โš ๏ธ Blogging is a passion. I see people rant and talk all about things from their feeling to their problems on social media. I see psychotic people who complain and ranting and all kind of embarrassing thing and sharing from the most private thing in social media. For me, when it comes to sharing about those things on social media, I have to think three to five times before actually posting it, because people can be so judgemental and mean, ya know. Oh, don't get me wrong, it's not like I hate it, it's a part of my own entertainment where seeing people embarrassing themselves in social media really fascinates me. I know, I have a judgemental mind. But, on second thought, so does everyone else. While writing post in a blog doesn't really embarrass me. Because, that's how a personal blog is supposed to function. I can write whatever I want, cause it's a blog. Even though strangers are going to read my blog, but they won't judge me too much because, its MY PERSONAL BLOG. Right?

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